Nirmala Jayaraman
The Nilgiris — 643219, Tamil Nadu, India.
https://www.instagram.com/the_mindsetmagic/
The Mindset Magic
Master Yourself, Own Your Life and Love it like a Boss.
As an INFJ [“Introversion, Intuition, Feeling, and Judging” personality type] with a childhood marked by feeling like an outcast, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery driven by a fascination with human behavior and potential. Exploring interests ranging from languages to martial arts, I discovered my passion for empowering others. Through serious consideration of diverse career paths—such as aspiring to become an IPS [Indian Police Service] officer and exploring the realms of art and psychology—I honed my leadership skills and embraced my multifaceted nature. My journey led me to life coaching, where I obtained multiple certifications and specialized in empowering multi-passionate individuals to master themselves. With a mission to create a world where judgment is replaced with love, I embarked on a euphoric expedition of freeing minds and enabling them to love frigging boldly through my coaching and meditations.
What is your niche (coaching focus) and how did you choose it?
I chose the niche of “Self-Mastery for Multi-Passionate Working Individuals” based on my personal journey of self-discovery and exploration of diverse interests. Through my own experiences, I realized the importance of mastering oneself and embracing one’s multifaceted nature. I’m passionate about empowering others to do the same, to own their lives, and to love boldly, regardless of societal expectations. This niche allows me to combine my expertise in various areas, from psychology to coaching, to help individuals navigate their own euphoric expedition of self-discovery and fulfillment.
Who is your ideal client?
My ideal client is the multi-passionate working individual, a dynamic and driven person who thrives on pursuing multiple interests and passions simultaneously. Typically aged between 25 to 45, they are highly educated and engaged in professions spanning technology, creative fields, entrepreneurship, or corporate sectors. My clients face common challenges such as difficulty in commitment, overwhelm and burnout, lack of focus, identity crisis, fear of missing out, difficulty in achieving mastery, social pressure, financial instability, relationship strain, self-doubt and imposter syndrome, feeling overwhelmed, struggling with work-life balance, and yearning for a sense of fulfillment across various aspects of their lives. They seek guidance on integrating their diverse interests into a cohesive life and career path, achieving success, continuous growth and learning, satisfaction in multiple domains, and cultivating a sense of balance and harmony. Motivated by a desire for personal growth, self-actualization, fulfillment, purpose, freedom of expression, creative expression, and meaningful impact, they are ready to invest in their self-mastery journey and embrace change to design a life that aligns with their values and passions.
What inspired you to become a life coach?
My inspiration to become a life coach stems from my own journey of self-discovery and the transformative power of personal empowerment. I realized the value of embracing your authentic self and your own style of multi-passionate living. Witnessing the profound impact of coaching on my own life fueled my desire to help others navigate their own paths to fulfillment and self-mastery.
How long have you been coaching?
I was engaged in coaching long before I formally recognized it as such. However, in a professional capacity, I began my coaching journey in June 2023.
How did you get your first client?
My first client approached me during a general conversation, where we discovered a shared interest in a particular topic. Through our dialogue, it became apparent that she was grappling with challenges related to self-discovery and finding her purpose. This realization prompted the commencement of our professional coaching relationship.
How has your coaching journey changed your life?
It made my life a lot more meaningful and exciting. It demanded me to stay authentic and gave me unconditional confidence and unlimited happiness. It helps me embrace all of me and discover new parts of me with each client and ensures growth every day.
What is the most challenging part of being a life coach?
The most challenging aspect of life coaching is what excites me the most: Navigating the complexities of each individual’s journey and tailoring my approach to meet their unique needs while they are not aware of their own needs.
What is the most fulfilling part of being a life coach?
Witnessing my clients realizing and liberating from themselves as they reclaim their power and pursue their dreams is incredibly fulfilling and reinforces my passion for coaching.
What has been your most inspirational coaching moment, with a client?
Each time a client has happy tears out of “Oh my god!” moments.
What is your favorite coaching activity or exercise to do with clients?
Challenging questions to enable them to look at a different perspective. Also, meditation to help them calm down and focus.
What has been the most effective strategy for finding clients and/or growing your business?
Results and communication as [used] in marketing materials and sales.
What advice would you give YOURSELF back when you first dreamed of becoming a coach?
Trust in your intuition and love frigging boldly.
What is the impact you want to make in this world?
To create a world where judgment is replaced with love.
Is there anything else you would like to share with Transformation Coaching Magazine readers?
I want to extend my heartfelt gratitude to each and every one of you who are reading this. I’m truly grateful for your attention and support. I’d like to give a special shoutout to Joeel and Natalie Rivera for their invaluable contribution to my journey. I’m endlessly thankful for their wisdom and insight and making this possible. Each of us holds a unique and precious gift to offer this world and, if you are reading this, you have probably started your journey towards it in sharing it with others. Your presence, your energy, and your commitment to growth are all deeply appreciated and I am so glad you did this. I’m honored to share this path with you. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
